Jyvaskyla, Finland 1-11-19 Arrived (Meggie)

Picture: Morning Sun and Snow

While the extensive series of flights to get to Jyvaskyla were rather torturous, what awaited at the end of that last plane ride was one of the most beautiful, mystical cities I’ve ever encountered or heard of. I have only been here for one full day and have ventured out around only 5 times, but I can confidently describe the obvious magical aspect of Jyvaskyla. Perhaps it’s just my excitement of moving to a new totally different place, yet I absolutely have already formed a love for Finland. Before we left, my family made sure to read a couple of books that really showed the essence of the Finnish people. And while the books very clearly described the meritable atmosphere, I’m so glad that we get to experience it all ourselves.

The Finnish language is a lot like English in the way that depending on the person speaking, differentiates whether the language is actually pretty or not. It cracks me up every time my family attempts to pronounce some 15 letter word; Im very glad that we will be taking a Finnish language class starting next week. So far the only thing I’ve caught onto is that the Finns enunciate the first syllable the most out of the rest of the word – and that somehow the letters “jyv” make the “oo” sound.

I’m so excited to take part in the many adventures to come. I will remember to make sure to embrace every opportunity that comes our way.

Love, Meggie


Liam Has Arrived in Finland

Picture: Liam and his dad walk home

My Trip To Finland Has Begun!

The trip started back in January 8 when me, my dad, and my sister drove 3 hours to LA to go the international airport. When we got there we checked in our luggage and passed through security without a hitch. Finally, I sat down at the gate, 4 hours before the boarding began! While we were waiting I was able to take a look around the airport and at the planes.

Then I boarded the plane to London. The flight was going to be 9 hours and 8,750 kilometers long. More than a few movies later I arrived at Heathrow airport in England. After a mad dash to the checked luggages pick-up, we sat down near a board with flight information. Which turned out to be incorrect. Right before I boarded the 4 hour flight to Helsinki I bought a sandwich for the ride. Then a soft landing in Helsinki.

A 2 hour layover, then finally Jyvaskyla. When I first stepped out of the airport, I gasped because of the cold and also of the beautiful landscape. Trees topped with powder-like snow and the ground was sparkling even at 2 in the morning.

The next day my dad and I woke up at noon. The sun had only been up for 2 hours before and would set in the next 2 hours. So we swiftly got dressed and went for a walk and it was extremely cold out; 16 degrees fahrenheit to be exact. Then we got back and went to sleep. That’s all for today.

All Together Now!


Picture: First family walk in Jyvaskyla


As with all long trips abroad, the long months of planning and preparing suddenly and almost unexpectedly stop when the trip actually begins. For us, this usually means getting down to LAX and sailing through the TSA security without a care in the world (if only, Haha!). Both of our luggage bags were mysteriously exactly 4.5 pounds over weight, but the kids quickly squirreled the extra items away into their carry-on bags without being asked (!)The flights out were as smooth as can be expected. The Finnair staff were very friendly and welcoming, so if you’re thinking of coming out to visit, they are definitely worth it. However, I would keep carry-on luggage to an absolute minimum as all three flights including the trans Atlantic had problems accommodating everyone’s bags. C’est la vie!

First impressions-snow (obviously); forest bird sounds playing in the Helsinki airport bathrooms (relaxing); quiet (absolute and everywhere-making you think that you should whisper even when thinking); what a great place! So far we’re enjoying the lack of traffic and the calmer and slower pace of life. I had to be reminded not to stand so close to other people while at a crosswalk or waiting in line for something as the Finns seem to like a good 4-5 feet in their personal space which is even more than the English! We are also practicing not saying, “hi” or “hello” to everyone we pass on our walks through the city parks as the locals don’t really do this either. I think this will work out just fine! It really looks like a winter wonderland complete with pine trees tastefully decorated with just the right amount of icy frosting, while buildings range from Swiss style lodges to modern glass works of art.

So good to see Robyn waiting for us outside at 1:30 am. I was also impressed the next day by how much of the city she’d covered in her first few days here alone. Not easy as nothing is written in English. The ‘balmy’ 32’ F weather changed yesterday dipping to 16’F/-9’C. This was actually colder down by the frozen Jyvasjarvi (Jyvaskyla Lake) due to the breeze which nipped the exposed skin on faces and quickly numbs fingertips if trying to take a selfie. We’d been warned not to venture out onto the ice if there were ice fisherman out on it as they typically risk imminent death to catch fish while the ice is still soft enough to chop through (or fall as the case may be). We rounded out the day by buying some supplies at a local store before returning home in full darkness (3pm!)

Note: We’ve already been invited to our first dinner complete with sauna and avanto swimming   (cold water dip). Am scared and excited…

All Good! Robyn Has Left The Building-Stu

Picture: Robyn looking chipper at 5 am/S.B. Airport. On her way at last!

I’m pleased to announce that Robyn’s mom is making a strong recovery and so Robyn felt comfortable with catching her flight this morning as planned. As worrying as this was, I’m thankful that we were able to help and that family and friends are pulling together. There maybe one or two more grey hairs on our heads than a week ago, though.

At the time of posting, Robyn should be nearing New York for a brief layover before heading out east. I gather there will be at least one other Fulbrighter on the same flight which is good for morale although I don’t think it qualifies for an upgrade to business class. As for those of us still here, the kids and I are all packed and set to go. I did take out one extra kitchen sink from our luggage (how many do you actually need? 😉 The dog is settled in his temporary home, and the to do list has shrunk down to single digits. Time to start the countdown: T-minus 48 hours…

Thanks again to all who have supported us and help make this a reality. “Kiitti” as they say in Finland.

One last Wrinkle…Thursday Night/Friday Morning-Robyn

My departure is only hours away, and I am struck with how quickly the world can be turned upside down. I thought I was out of the woods as my dad just got out of the hospital. However, last night was spent in another hospital ER as it’s my mom’s turn to be admitted.

I’m trying really hard to balance being a child to parents that are growing older as well as making sure my own children’s welfare is somewhat stable before a move abroad. And yes, I still remember my amazing yet currently neglected husband. So the current plan is to take advantage of quiet hospital waiting rooms to organize my paperwork, research my inquiry project, and study the Fulbright bible. My husband and I have divided and conquered to make sure the kids have plans with friends before we depart. I’m letting go and accepting that Costco pizza be dinner…again. Watching silly family movies at night so at least we are near each other, but able to recharge.

Currently I’m almost at the point of calling to postpone my flight to be with my mom. Or do I go as planned? Too much up in the air to make any final calls. I’m just moving forward, but making plans in case I need (or want) to stay. I’ve been laughing with my brothers that we have become quite good at navigating the hospital system due to this unexpected and additional time we’ve spent in them over the last few months. We should be collecting hospital t-shirts…I guess there is no use worrying about what to do as these decisions are often just made for you. Trying to be at peace and trying to be the best version of me that I can be.

Ice It Up!-Stu

Picture: Meggie on Ice

Our training for Finland continued this week as we took a few hours gliding smoothly and professionally around our local ice skating rink, Ice in Paradise (rated #1/1;) At least that was the plan. The reality was 3 rigid scarecrows clawing their way around the torturous ice trying to avoid small children who seemed intent on hurling themselves to their doom under our dull blades. I say 3 scarecrows only, because Robyn seemed to have remembered her ice skating youth and so moved gracefully in and around the throng while actually smiling. The nerve!

I was more than a little worried that one of us (well, me mostly) would fall and break something necessary for our upcoming trip. This feeling was elevated when we noticed a small crowd gathered on the ice while we waited for our skates. Then a wide-eyed person said that there’d been an accident. Robyn urged me out to take a look as my EMT training sometimes comes in handy. Slithering over on my street shoes, I followed the young supervisor to the center of the rink where a prone figure lay still. Turns out the teen had fallen on his face and blacked out. Another person with medical training and I talked to him and I soon saw that he hadn’t broken anything obvious and that he thankfully had all his teeth. Soon after the first responders arrived and we faded into the background. Phew!

So, yes I was sure that I would be the next person to impact on the ice like a rotisserie chicken thrown from a rooftop as I’m at that age where people seem to end up on America’s Funniest Videos doing something stupid. Luckily, we had friends of ours with us who have spent much time on the ice playing hockey and the like. Giving just enough relevant information to get us safely through the tough first hour and enough hope to go back for more, we owe much to Jason, Nick, and Naomi Perl. THANKS!

As it turned out, it did become much easier for us all as we stuck at it. In fact, I noticed that we were beginning to enjoy it much more by the end. As it seems to be a daily pastime in Finland, we really do need to become more comfortable on blades, especially as there is an unlimited supply of ice this time of year. But, could I please wear a helmet?

Day 2- Poás Volcano N.P/Vera Blanca General Vicinity-Stu

Picture: Meg enjoying the power of the cascade 1/2 way up the slope overlooking the waterfall near Vera Blanca

Cold! The night had been a chilly one which we should have anticipated due to the altitude.

We’d been socked in by the busy clouds racing up and over the ridges all day. It made for a great morning walk as we meandered along the farm tracks out back of our B & B. Interestingly, the scenery was very similar to that of English farmland complete with cows and eye-aching greenery (at least to those of us who are used to the brown hues of summer California). It was good to get the blood pumping as we walked up some very steep trails. Definitely felt the altitude. Walked over to the signposted Lecheria, but didn’t see anyone around except some bored bovines.

Later in the day we drove Raul down to a craggy waterfall a few miles outside Vera Blanca that tumbled down from a cliff that had to be easily 100-150 feet high. We stood at the bottom buffeted as much by the noise of the cascade as well the actual spray. The lush greenery clung defiantly to the cliffside right up to the water creating a very pretty picture. A little up the hill, there was a cool-looking water garden tourist trap where for a hefty fee it’s possible to see the waterfall from higher up, enjoy a fancy dinner, and explore the other attractions. Large, fancy coaches waited outside in lines. We opted for the free backpacker style encounter, and were totally satisfied.

By now, our meager traveling supplies augmented by breakfast at the B&B were almost gone. I’d been looking for a grocery store since we left San Jose and had yet to find one. I left Robyn and the kids and started driving through the village and out towards a bigger town I’d noticed beckoning on the map. 45 minutes later, I still hadn’t gotten there and was about to turn around when I saw a small store on the side of the road. I pulled in and walked into the gloom of the dirt-floored establishment. The shelves were nearly all empty although there was an ample supply of tinned sardines, some chips, a few eggs, a tube of black bean paste, and a few tortillas. I bought some of the eggs, beans, and tortillas and was very pleased to find an onion and a pepper in a corner. Success! I then noticed a bottle of Liqueur de Aranja which I guessed was some kind of orange-flavored alcohol. Good enough, I thought. I paid up and went home feeling like my first foray into the depths of Costa Rica was successful as I’d managed to secure enough food (just about) to feed us all. The total cost was about $2.50. In addition, I’d managed to have a conversation of sorts in Spanish with the lovely abuela behind the counter. By the way, I was glad to have expected that no-one would speak English and had been practicing my Spanish diligently. I was now able to apologize for butchering their language.

Another ritual was born that evening, too. After eating an early dinner, we all wrote in our journals until there was not enough daylight to see, then sat back on couch within the relative safety of our little cabin (which by the way shook with every clap of thunder and blast of lightning) and listened to the astonishing pyrotechnics of the nightly thunderstorm while the rain drilled away at the roof. Meg wondered where the little kitten was while I wondered if the cabin was going to float off the mountain…

Signing Off-Robyn

Picture: Liam and I going to school on our very last day together. We’ve walked to work/school everyday for the past 7 years. Liam has endured many early mornings and late afternoons. Gonna miss this extra time together.

Today was my last day at work before leave. I’m totally emotional. Why so sad when I’m about to embark on such a tremendous opportunity? I love my job, I am passionate about advocating for my students, I have an amazing team, and I get a high sharing my knowledge with colleagues. Fulbright has already impacted my life even prior to departing. Obviously, I do not know a lot about many things. However, I do know about inclusive education, special education, collaboration, and training. My deputy superintendent once told me I was an expert in my field and I laughed inwardly at her statement feeling at the time that she was mistaken. This year I own it: I know that I am an expert in my field. And yet I know that even with all my knowledge I can be proud of, I still have so much to learn. Everyone needs to continue learning- even teachers!

I will miss my students, our program, the talented team I get to support. I trust that the hard work and foundation that I have created will allow for smooth sailing.

To all the amazing teachers that interact with my students-I know that you’ll take care of our program. Collaborate with other team members. Have conversations and ask questions before you get frustrated. Brainstorm and problem-solve because you have the skills in place to make this year amazing. It’s an honor working with you all.

Signing off, Robyn

Book Review: The Year of the Hare- Arto Paasilinna

The Year of the Hare- Arto Paasilinna

In preparation for our upcoming trip to Finland, we decided that it would benefit our family to begin the immersion process by delving into the country’s popular literature. One such work is the novel, The Year of the Hare by Arto Paasilinna which follows the exploits of Kaarlo Vatanen, a journalist with a tacky magazine from Helsinki who labors in a loveless marriage. While on an assignment with his photographer, the hapless (or should we say courageous) Vatanen is in a car that hits a young hare which disappears into the woods. Vatanen jumps out of the car and finds the wounded animal after a lengthy search and is left behind by the agitated photographer. Vatanen, in a move that echoes the inspiring choices of IT office worker hero Peter Gibbons in the American 1990’s cult movie classic, Office Space, then decides to leave his wife and job, and embark on a new adventure roaming the Finnish countryside.

The Year of the Hare, first published in 1975, explores a notion that seems to be held dear to Finnish people: namely, “waking up to one’s limits (and therefore one’s possibilities)” as well as taking advantage of the “liberating” opportunities life can bring as Pico Iyer stated in his foreword. The story is also predominantly based in nature, another place held dear to Finns. It demonstrates a quirky sense of humor as the kind-hearted Vatanen accompanied by his 4-legged sidekick sleeps in barns and the forest, gets shot at by an upset priest, and tries to revive a long-dead patriarch being stored in a barn the night before his funeral. The escapades get progressively more unusual and entertaining as Vatanen travels north culminating in a series of events that include being drafted into a wildfire crew during a forest fire, going on a drunken bender (emerging weeks later with a new fiance) being terrorized by partiers craving sauna, causing a foreign dignitary’s wife to eat hare poop soup, and finally going on an epic bear hunt chasing a locally infamous bear into the USSR.

The Year of the Hare is a quick-paced and absorbing read that did indeed help prepare us for our upcoming visit to Finland; just in unexpected ways. I put the book down a little bemused by the humor and ideas hinted at. Some, like being outdoors and embracing new opportunities, (especially physically demanding ones) and the suspect motives of bureaucrats I can relate to. Others, such as the Finns’ relationship with laws, rules, and the dark side of human nature will need some more consideration. The humor is also expressed differently, although there was enough slapstick and toilet humor to satisfy my English background. After all, we are going to be naked in the sauna with these people very soon…All in all, a very entertaining read. Go buy it.

Spoiler alert for junior readers: the hare lived, so don’t worry.

-Stu

Packing Up & Moving Out

It’s beginning to get very real…We came to the almost painful realization that packing up doesn’t just mean stuffing your mountains of acquired crap into a storage area and various assorted suitcases. Oh no. What it really means is transforming  your house into a blank canvas so that you can begin the real work: cleaning it and making it renter ready.

Wow! Our delusions of minimalism were rocked to the very foundations when we delved into the darkest and deepest recesses of our small home. Items lost years ago magically presented themselves (including 3 cousins, a boat lost in the Bermuda Triangle, another child). Perhaps we need to try a little harder to limit possessions?

Added to which, did you know that when you remove every single item of food from the cupboards, fridge, and freezer it reveals a layer of detritus that must be cleared away and then sanitized? Apparently we didn’t when we decided to, “quickly pack up the kitchen and then the rest of the house before lunch…” My bones still ache from the memory.

Still, we are done. Tonight is the last night we will spend in our house until mid July, 7 months from now. We will presumably go through our luggage a few more times to make sure that we have what we will need to replace when we get to -20 degree weather in Finland. Yet for now we are set to go. Yes, it’s getting very real. 

Thanks to everyone who in ways big and small are helping us prepare. Let’s do this!

-Stu